divasdynasty women's issues: His mother

divasdynasty women's issues: His mother

His mother

Ladies,

I learned something today and I couldn't wait to share it with you all. Now if you are one of the not-so-lucky ladies dealing with a partner's mother who thinks you are the worst thing created since the television (yes TV - some of our mothers' actually believe it is the devil's network), then rest assured that truly like they say it will come to pass. But before you can breathe that sigh of relief, here's my lesson learnt. "Every mother wants a woman whom she believes respects and cares for her son." Simple, now the question could be how else does she want me to show it? Apart from your expertise in the bedroom girlfriend (lol) she wants to know that you can cook for him, really cook for him. When you take the time to make those extra special dishes - she sees it as a sign of RESPECT. And like she told me, as long as a woman respects her son, she (mum, that is) too can relax knowing that she (you, that is) will treat him well. In my case, it worked! Yeah ladies, his mother and I are best of friends now and the world is truly a happy place for us all.

Until next time ladies, cheerio.

Women's solidarity

It is often assumed that women are often jealous of each other's success. They say we backbite, steal each other's husbands and all the other "meaningless supposedly insights" that men and even our fellow women throw about in regular conversations oftentimes. Phew! I know, that was one long sentence. Still, I feel like screaming "Eureka!" everytime I see websites like these.

http://www.womenintechnology.co.uk/it-tester-and-qa-jobs

http://www.nabfeme.org/about/how-we-operate/

These two websites are just a few of the thousands out there that women like us put out to help eaach other. Yayyy!!! I feel exonerated.

So if you read this today, in a month's, next year or whenever, please feel free to add some of those websites that we all can benefit from.

Until next time, cheerio ladies...