Men... At a loss of words.

Ladies, don’t we sometimes feel like we do not know what our men and men in general expect from us? Admit it or not but sometimes we are at a loss at what or who to be. It’s crazy.

We are the sweet mothers, the daddy's daughters, the big brothers' protégé...and yet we are still treated as sex objects…They see us and think SEX. You don’t believe me? Tell me if any of the following sound familiar.

I have my dreams, I decide to do something about these dreams, so I go to school, get the relevant qualification and then set out to bring that dream into reality, I set out to get a JOB. What happens? Employer says skirt down first.

I dress up; look at myself in the mirror and feel gorgeous, my self-esteem is lifted up, so I step out to get that job, the bike-man drives by, and splashes water on me. I get frustrated and yell, he shouts back with the one common word they always use to get back at us, he says "shut up, you slut"...

My partner tells me to dress up nicely for a date on the town or with friends. So I wear something that makes me look classy yet sexy (that is if I can find that combination), I step out and my partner is impressed at my efforts. Then we meet up with friends and after getting a few admiring glances, and being the perfect companion by smiling at his friend’s not-so-funny jokes, partner darling decides to frown all evening. We get home and what do I get? “Have some respect when we go out next time”, and as I ask myself what I did wrong, I get the common answer we all hear at some point; “you were flirting so much no one would have thought you were my partner”. Seriously?

I could go on all day on different scenarios, but ladies if you agree or disagree with me or even have a different take on this, just hit the keyboard darling…until next time,

Ms Goretti

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