Everyone has a
worthwhile dream. But very few wake up to make their dreams come true. Making
your dream come through is a very important part of your existence. Here are the simple and practical steps you
must consider if truly you want to achieve your dream.
Step 1-Believe in yourself and dream: First and foremost, love yourself. Love
yourself like no one else can do. Look into the mirror and just fall in love
with who you are. Love everything about yourself. You are uniquely created and
nobody can be like you. Until you fall so much in love with yourself, you
cannot believe in yourself. Once you are crazily in love with the person you
see in the mirror, then the next step is to believe in yourself, knowing that
you can do just about anything. If you don’t believe in yourself, it is
difficult to believe in your dream. Most times, people pursue a dream just
because someone around them is chasing the same dream. If believe in your
dream, it is very difficult to be distracted by someone else’s dream. During
the course of my job as a consultant, I’ve seen women—men too—with unfulfilled
dreams or broken focus. They either fall out of love with themselves or stopped
believing in their dreams. Whatever it is you want to become, don’t be distracted.
Just believe so strongly in what you want—your dream—and achieving it will
become very easy.
Step 2-Be committed to your dream: A dream is quite too ambiguous to achieve, that is why you need to
break it into achievable goals. Breaking your dream into achievable goals makes
it easier for you to actualize it. Once you have the goals in front of you; then
take necessary action immediate. Make that move now! Don’t procrastinate. Keep
the focus. Once you know what you want, you must be committed to achieving it.
Keep an open mind. Be flexible. Be willing and ready to learn and explore. Have
a teachable spirit. Seek knowledge, wisdom and understanding. Sometimes the
goals may seem impossible, but your daily commitment and diligent will make it
possible to achieve.
Step3-Get as much knowledge as you can: There is a saying that knowledge is power. Yes, it is. And that is
why you need it. So, gather as much information as you can. Develop an appetite
for reading for no knowledge is a waste. When you have knowledge of what you
want and rightly channel it, the sky will be your starting point. Knowledge
rightly applied is wisdom. Most young people are knowledgeable, but lack wisdom.
That is why they end up in regrets because of the mistake of doing things the
wrong way. Knowledge of what you want to achieve is important. Applying it
rightly becomes wisdom. If you want to be a pilot, read wide on how to be a successful
pilot. If you want to be a medical doctor, do your research on medicine. Then
rightly apply the knowledge you have gathered. In no time, your dream will
become your reality.
Step
4-Failing and Falling is part of the process: Take
a bold step and walk into the unknown. One of my Pastors in one his “Wisdom
Ways” teachings said “Just do it”. That is like echoing Nike’s USP. So I am
putting it in your face all over again; just do it! The fear of failure most
times makes you stay in your comfort zone. If the chap who invented the
electricity yielded to fear, we probably would have been living in the dark
today. He failed ninety nine times, but he was not afraid to continue. For him,
he only discovered ninety nine ways of how not to do it. Fear shouldn’t cripple
you. Set yourself loose. Walk courageously into the unknown. I encourage you to
seek God’s truth, challenge every fear based thought to find out what is really
true and what is not. It is excusable to fail, but it is not acceptable to fall
and remain there. You need to get up, dust yourself and do it again and again
until you succeed. It is not over until you win. Nobody ever said the journey
to the top is going to be easy. The truth; it won’t be easy. It is not easy.
But be ready to face it. When you study the lives of great men, you will discover
what differentiate them from ordinary people. They were determined to succeed
no matter how many times they failed. Giving up isn’t part of their plan and
fear is not in their dictionary. Most times, on your path to achieving your
dream, people around you will think you are foolish. Like they thought the
Wright brothers—Orville and Wilbur—were foolish when they chose to make metal
fly in the sky. Their foolishness is what gave birth to the airplane that we
see today. So, regardless of what people think, follow your dream until you
make it happen. I will not fail to mention this little secret; before you
embark on chasing your dream; ask God to help you. With God, all things—I mean
all things—are possible. So as you doggedly work hard, trust Him to make your
dream come true. I am done!